goodafternoon,ladiesandgentlemen!
iamgladtobeheretosharemyopinionswithallofyou.mytopictodayisaboutinternet.
withthedevelopmentoftechnology,moreandmorepeoplearefondofusinginternet.itisparticularlypopularamongyoungpeople.justlikethecoinhastwosides,internetalsohasitsownadvantagesanddisadvantages.
firstofall,theinternethasbroughtpeoplegreatconvenienceingettinginformation,entertainmentandcontactwitheachother.asforourstudents,itisausefultoolwhenwemeetproblems.whenwearetired,apieceoflightmusicwillhelpusrelax.ifwehavefreetime,wecanenjoymoviesorinterestingcartoons.whatsmore,wecanalsowatchliveprogramsontheinternetorseeitlaterifwearenotavailableatthattime.
hisfatherssellingblood.whenhisfatherkneltdowntobeghimtoreturntoschool,hewastoonumbtoshowanyregret.
thatsall,thankyou!
Istandheretodayhumbledbythetaskbeforeus,gratefulforthetrustyouhavebestowed,mindfulofthesacrificesbornebyourancestors.IthankPresidentBushforhisservicetoournation,aswellasthegenerosityandcooperationhehasshownthroughoutthistransition.
Forty-fourAmericanshavenowtakenthepresidentialoath.Thewordshavebeenspokenduringrisingtidesofprosperityandthestillwatersofpeace.Yet,everysooftentheoathistakenamidstgatheringcloudsandragingstorms.Atthesemoments,Americahascarriedonnotsimplybecauseoftheskillorvisionofthoseinhighoffice,butbecauseWethePeoplehaveremainedfaithfultotheidealsofourforbearers,andtruetoourfoundingdocuments.
Soithasbeen.SoitmustbewiththisgenerationofAmericans.
Thatweareinthemidstofcrisisisnowwellunderstood.Ournationisatwar,againstafar-reachingnetworkofviolenceandhatred.Oureconomyisbadlyweakened,aconsequenceofgreedandirresponsibilityonthepartofsome,butalsoourcollectivefailuretomakehardchoicesandpreparethenationforanewage.Homeshavebeenlost;jobsshed;businessesshuttered.Ourhealthcareistoocostly;ourschoolsfailtoomany;andeachdaybringsfurtherevidencethatthewaysweuseenergystrengthenouradversariesandthreatenourplanet.
Thesearetheindicatorsofcrisis,subjecttodataandstatistics.Lessmeasurablebutnolessprofoundisasappingofconfidenceacrossourland-anaggingfearthatAmerica'sdeclineisinevitable,andthatthenextgenerationmustloweritssights.
TodayIsaytoyouthatthechallengeswefacearereal.Theyareseriousandtheyaremany.Theywillnotbemeteasilyorinashortspanoftime.Butknowthis,America-theywillbemet.
Onthisday,wegatherbecausewehavechosenhopeoverfear,unityofpurposeoverconflictanddiscord.
Onthisday,wecometoproclaimanendtothepettygrievancesandfalsepromises,therecriminationsandwornoutdogmas,thatforfartoolonghavestrangledourpolitics.
Weremainayoungnation,butinthewordsofScripture,thetimehascometosetasidechildishthings.Thetimehascometoreaffirmourenduringspirit;tochooseourbetterhistory;tocarryforwardthatpreciousgift,thatnobleidea,passedonfromgenerationtogeneration:theGod-givenpromisethatallareequal,allarefree,andalldeserveachancetopursuetheirfullmeasureofhappiness.
Inreaffirmingthegreatnessofournation,weunderstandthatgreatnessisneveragiven.Itmustbeearned.Ourjourneyhasneverbeenoneofshort-cutsorsettlingforless.Ithasnotbeenthepathforthefaint-hearted-forthosewhopreferleisureoverwork,orseekonlythepleasuresofrichesandfame.Rather,ithasbeentherisk-takers,thedoers,themakersofthings-somecelebratedbutmoreoftenmenandwomenobscureintheirlabour,whohavecarriedusupthelong,ruggedpathtowardsprosperityandfreedom.
Forus,theypackeduptheirfewworldlypossessionsandtraveledacrossoceansinsearchofanewlife.
Forus,theytoiledinsweatshopsandsettledthewest;enduredthelashofthewhipandplowedthehardearth.
Forus,theyfoughtanddied,inplaceslikeConcordandGettysburg;NormandyandKheSahn.
Timeandagainthesemenandwomenstruggledandsacrificedandworkedtilltheirhandswererawsothatwemightliveabetterlife.TheysawAmericaasbiggerthanthesumofourindividualambitions;greaterthanallthedifferencesofbirthorwealthorfaction.
Thisisthejourneywecontinuetoday.Weremainthemostprosperous,powerfulnationonEarth.Ourworkersarenolessproductivethanwhenthiscrisisbegan.Ourmindsarenolessinventive,ourgoodsandservicesnolessneededthantheywerelastweekorlastmonthorlastyear.Ourcapacityremainsundiminished.Butourtimeofstandingpat,ofprotectingnarrowinterestsandputtingoffunpleasantdecisions-thattimehassurelypassed.Startingtoday,wemustpickourselvesup,dustourselvesoff,andbeginagaintheworkofremakingAmerica.
Foreverywherewelook,thereisworktobedone.Thestateoftheeconomycallsforaction,boldandswift,andwewillact-notonlytocreatenewjobs,buttolayanewfoundationforgrowth.Wewillbuildtheroadsandbridges,theelectricgridsanddigitallinesthatfeedourcommerceandbindustogether.Wewillrestoresciencetoitsrightfulplace,andwieldtechnology'swonderstoraisehealthcare'squalityandloweritscost.Wewillharnessthesunandthewindsandthesoiltofuelourcarsandrunourfactories.Andwewilltransformourschoolsandcollegesanduniversitiestomeetthedemandsofanewage.Allthiswecando.Andallthiswewilldo.
Now,therearesomewhoquestionthescaleofourambitions-whosuggestthatoursystemcannottoleratetoomanybigplans.Theirmemoriesareshort.Fortheyhaveforgottenwhatthiscountryhasalreadydone;whatfreemenandwomencanachievewhenimaginationisjoinedtocommonpurpose,andnecessitytocourage.
Whatthecynicsfailtounderstandisthatthegroundhasshiftedbeneaththem-thatthestalepoliticalargumentsthathaveconsumedusforsolongnolongerapply.Thequestionweasktodayisnotwhetherourgovernmentistoobigortoosmall,butwhetheritworks-whetherithelpsfamiliesfindjobsatadecentwage,caretheycanafford,aretirementthatisdignified.Wheretheanswerisyes,weintendtomoveforward.Wheretheanswerisno,programswillend.Andthoseofuswhomanagethepublic'sdollarswillbeheldtoaccount-tospendwisely,reformbadhabitsanddoourbusinessinthelightofday-becauseonlythencanwerestorethevitaltrustbetweenapeopleandtheirgovernment.
Noristhequestionbeforeuswhetherthemarketisaforceforgoodorill.Itspowertogeneratewealthandexpandfreedomisunmatched,butthiscrisishasremindedusthatwithoutawatchfuleye,themarketcanspinoutofcontrol-andthatanationcannotprosperlongwhenitfavoursonlytheprosperous.Thesuccessofoureconomyhasalwaysdependednotjustonthesizeofourgrossdomesticproduct,butonthereachf;onourabilitytoextendopportunitytoeverywillingheart-notoutofcharity,butbecauseitisthesurestroutetoourcommongood.
Asforourcommondefence,werejectasfalsethechoicebetweenoursafetyandourideals.Ourfoundingfathers,facedwithperilswecanscarcelyimagine,draftedachartertoassuretheruleoflawandtherightsofman,acharterexpandedbythebloodofgenerations.Thoseidealsstilllighttheworld,andwewillnotgivethemupforexpedience'ssake.Andsotoallotherpeoplesandgovernmentswhoarewatchingtoday,fromthegrandestcapitalstothesmallvillagewheremyfatherwasborn:knowthatAmericaisafriendofeachnationandeveryman,womanandchildwhoseeksafutureofpeaceanddignity,andthatwearereadytoleadoncemore.
Goodevening，LadiesandGentlemen:Thankyouverymuchforchoosingtocomeinsuchacoldnight.Todaymytopicisaboutchoiceandprocess.Aresearchshowsthatamanhastomake73choicesoneday.Withsomanychoicesoneday，peopleeasilygetsoconfusedandafraidofmakingwrongchoicethattheyhesitateandfinallymissthetruepartoflife.Inmyopinion，thefollowingpartisofmuchmoreimportancethanthechoice.Thereisnoabsoluterightorwrongchoicebutwonderfulorboringlife，whichtheprocessmakesthedifference.Lifeisaboxofchocolate，youneverknowwhatyouwillget.ForrestGumpmadenodecisionbyandforhimselfbutheaccomplishedgreatsuccesswithhish2willintheprocess.Theprocessisnottheroaditselfbuttheattitudesandfeelings，thecaution，courageandpersistancewehaveasweencounternewexperienceandunexpectedobstacles.Takemyselfasanexample，IchangedmymajorwhenIbecameapostgraduate.Afterthechoice，dayshavebeenharshforme.Icannotunderstandthenewlessonsatall.FortheyarecloselyrelatedtomathmaticswhichIlearnednothingaboutbefore.Howeverwuththebeliefthatthisisthegreatchanceformetoexperiencenewideasandchallengemyself，Ipersisted.Iaskedforhelpfromeverychannelandreorgonizedmylife.GraduallyIcouldunderstandsomepartsandevenfoundmathsinteresting.Moreover，Ilearnedtoactinsteadofcomplaining.Inretrospect，thechoiceleftnotraceinmymindbutthehappinessandbitternessofthepastfourmonthsbecomesanunforgetableexperienceinmylife.NOmatterwhatthechoiceis，enjoytheprocess.Intheprocess，yourpotentialwillbeinspiredandnewdiscoveries，improvementandprogresswillcometoyou.Thesearethemostbeautifulsceneriesandonlyonthewaycanyouseeit.Thesemakeyourlifecolorful.ThereisnoneedandIdonnotwanttojudgewhetheritrightorwrongformetobehere，butIcongratulatetomyselfforIgainandenjoythisfantasticexperience.Somydearfriends，neverworryaboutyourchoiceandenjoytheprocess.Iamsureyouwillgetsomethingnewandinterstingtonightafteryouchosetocomehere.Thankyou!
ladiesandgentlemen,goodmorning!i’mverygladtostandhereandgiveyouashortspeech.
man’slifeisaprocessofgrowingup,actuallyi’mstandinghereisagrowth.ifaperson’slifemustconstitutedbyvariouschoices,thenigrowupalongwiththesechoices.onceihopeicanstudyinacollegeinfuture,howeverthat’spassed,asyouknowicomehere,nowiwonderwhatthefutureholdsforme.
whenicometothisschool,itoldtomyself:thismynearfuture,allstartshere.followingiwilllearntobecomeaman,aintegratedman,whohasafinebody,cantakeonimportanttask,hasindependentthought,anopenmind,intensivethought,hastheabilitytojudgerightandwrong,hasaperfectjob.
oncemyteachersaid:”youarenotsewing,youarestylist;neverforgetwhichyoushouldlayouttopeopleisyourthought,notcraft.”iwillputmypersonalitywithmyinterestandabilityintomystudy,duringtheseprocessiwillcombinelearningwithdoing.ificanachievethis“future”,ithinkthatireallygrowup.andideeplybelievekindred,good-fellowshipandlovewillperfectionandhappyinthefuture.
howtosayfuture?maybeit’sanicewish.letsmakeupourminds,sticktoitandsurelywellenjoyourlife.
Dearteacherandclassmates:Iamverygladtomakeaspeechhereinthisclassagain!Thistime，I/'dliketotalksomethingaboutEnglish.IloveEnglish.Englishlanguageisnowusedeverywhereintheworld.IthasbecomethemostcommonlanguageonInternetandforinternationaltrade.LearningEnglishmakesmeconfidentandbringsmegreatpleasure.WhenIwasseven，mymothersentmetoanEnglishschool.Atthere，IplayedgamesandsangEnglishsongswithotherchildren.ThenIdiscoveredthebeautyofthelanguage，andbeganmycolorfuldreamintheEnglishworld.Everyday，IreadEnglishfollowingthetapes.Sometimes，IwatchEnglishcartoons.Ontheweekend，IoftengototheEnglishcorner.Bytalkingwithdifferentpeoplethere，IhavemademoreandmorefriendsaswellasimprovedmyoralEnglish.IhopeIcantravelaroundtheworldsomeday.IwanttogotoAmericatovisitWashingtonMonument，becausethepresidentWashingtonismyidol.Ofcourse，IwanttogotoLondontoo，becauseEnglandiswhereEnglishlanguagedeveloped.IfIcanridemybikeinCambridgeuniversity，Iwillbeveryhappy.IhopeIcanspeakEnglishwitheveryoneintheworld.I/'llintroduceChinatothem，suchastheGreatWall，theForbiddenCityandAnshan.Iknow，Romewasnotbuiltinaday.Ibelievethataftercontinuoushardstudy，onedayIcanspeakEnglishverywell.Ifyouwanttobeloved，youshouldlearntoloveandbelovable.SoIbelieveasIloveEnglisheveryday，itwilllovemetoo.
aspeople’sthoughtscontroltheirbodies,computerprogramsplayaleadingroleinthemoderntimes.bothsocialprogressandhumanevolutiondependonthecomputerprograms.inthepracticalapplication,asoftwareconsistsofdifferentprogramsandthencombineswithhardwaretodevelopintoahigh-techelectronicproduct.therearemanykindsofelectronicproductsfoundeverywhereinourdailylife.nearlyallthetimedowemakeuseoftheseproductstoconductourpassion.
yes,itisdefinitelyrightthatprogrammingisahardworkbecauseofitsspecialcharacteristics---complicated,time-wasted,logical.tomakeaprogramneedsourcontinualpatientandconfidence,andweshouldacceptfailureagainandagaininmostcases.butonceyougointofurtherunderstandingofcomputerprograms,youwillbesurprisedattheprograms’wander.indetail,throughprogrammingaheapofdateoracomputingmodelcanbeeasilysolvedweexpected,suchasanumberwanted,orthemodel’sparameters.themagicalpowerofprogramappealstoalltheprogrammers,certainlyincludingme.
itisofgreatconvenienceforustosimplifyormodelourcomplexquestionsbyprogramming.furthermore,studyingandusingprogramscanenforceustoformourabilityofanalyzingandlogic.computerlanguagehasitsregulargrammar.howtoorganizethelanguageintoareasonablecalculatingmethodinahighefficiencylikespeakingeasy-understandingandbreath-savingwords,isanawfulchallengeforus,anditwillbeveryfunny.
now,softwareismoreandmoreimportantinourlife,thereforeprogrammerbecomesapopularprofession,whichisoneurgentneedinthesociety.forourcountry,it’sveryimportanttoensureournationalsecurityfromothers,suchasjapan.enhancingmilitarystrengthmakesuspaymoreattentiontotheinformationalizedwarthatattachedintenselytothefundamentalfunctionofprogramandsoftware.itistruththatchinahasahugepopulationof1.4billion,whichmeansmessythingsfromallthepeopleeveryday.also,togovernthesocietyorderlyallbenefitfrominformationcomposedbyprograms.
takeamorecloserexample,intheclassroom,wearegraduatestudentsofengineering,andwillbeoccupiedinresearchinganddesigningwork.thus,notonlyisprogrammingourtoolinstudy,butalsobecomeaweaponthatpromotingscienceandtechnologyandproducinginventionandinnovation.
iloveprogramming,becauseofitspowerfulfunction.iloveprogramming,becauseofitsabundantapplication.
iloveprogramming,becauseofitsterriblechallenge.
iloveprogramming,butiamnotintendtobeanoutstandingprogrammer,normakingagreatresearchingachievement.ijustwanttoknowitanddowhatiwantwithit.
ihopeyoufirstlyremovethehorriblepsychologyuponprogramming,andthentrytogetintouchwithit.atlast,ihopeprogramminggivesyoumuchhappinessinlife!
Sinceenteringthenewcentury,wecanneverstopcreatingxuzhoucitycivilization.Solongwhycreateacivilizedsociety,however,didnotcreategoodplay?
Whatiscalledacivilizedcity?Civilizedcitymeansallliveinharmony,allAnLvkeepethhis,everyonetoleadbyexample.Thisisalsowedon'thaveagoodcivilizationtheimportantfactorofthecity.
Regardlessofweareordinarypeople,firstsaidtheoutrageous"officerthesecondgeneration".Theythinksthebodyoutoftheclub,theyfeelsuperior,itcanbearrogant,eventheproudparentsabandonedignore.Ifthecityonthe"officialsecondgeneration"toeducation,mayletthemturn,becomethebackboneofthemotherland.
Sayagainweareordinarycitizens.Thedaybeforeyesterday,Isawagroupofaboutthenewspaperpicturesofyunlonglakeuncivilizedphenomenon.Tomethedeepestimpressionisamiddle-agedmanlyingonthebench.Hebluesky.another1"sleep"onthebench,but"occupy"thelandoftherestofthevisitorstorest.Ifourvisitorswhowenttoshakehim,wouldliketochange,perhapsthepeoplewillsay,afterall,thisalsoisagoodthing!
Forthesocialconstructionofcivilizedcities,eachofustoparticipate,aslongastoeliminatetheuncivilizedfactors,Ibelievethatourxuzhouwillhaveabettertomorrow!
HowtoSellYourself
Inthiscompetitivesocietyitisessentialtoknowhowtosellyourselfinordertogetthejobyouwant.Thatmeansyoumustbeabletomarketyourbestfeaturesandpresentyourselfinthebestlight.Afterall,younevergetasecondchancetomakeafirstimpression.
Thereareseveralthingsyoucandotoprojectagoodimageinaninterview.Firstofall,looklikeawinner.Dressconservativelyandwell,andyou'lllooklikeyou'regoingtothetop.Second,communicateclearly.Considereachquestioncarefullyandrespondwithtotalhonesty.Remembertomakeeyecontactandmaintaingoodposture.Youneedtolookattentivebutalsoatease.Third,haveapositiveandassertiveattitude.It'simportanttoappearconfidentofyourabilityandoptimisticaboutyourfuture.Finally,beprepared.Presentaprofessionalresumeandbereadytoexplaineverythingindetail.
Byfollowingtheadviceabove,youareboundtomakeagoodimpressiononpotentialemployers.Thenyouwillbeabletochoosethebestopportunityforyouandtakethatfirststeptowardssuccess.
如何自我推销
在这个竞争激烈的社会中，为了得到你想要的工作，知道如何自我推销是很重要的。也就是说，你必须能够销售你最好的特点，并把你最好的一面呈现出来。毕竟，第一印象定江山。
要在面试时表现出好的一面，你可以做几件事情。首先，要看起来像个赢家。穿着保守而体面，会使你看起来像是就要成功了。第二，要能清楚地表达。仔细地考虑每个问题，并据实回答。记得要和对方有目光接触，并保持良好的姿势。你必须看起来专注而自在。第三，态度要积极而有自信。对你的能力有信心，并对你的`未来感到乐观是很重要的。最后，要充分准备。递上一份专业的简历，并准备好详细解释每件事。
遵照以上的建议，你就一定会给可能成为你老板的那些人，留下好的印象。然后你就可以选择对你而言最好的机会。并踏出迈向成功的第一步。
peopleareliketeabags—youhavetoputtheminhotwaterbeforeyouknowhowh2theyare."icanstillrememberthewordsthatdadsaidtomeyearsago.
wheniwasyoung,iusedtobeverynaughty.lifethenwaslikeaglaball,shiningwithbrightcolours.ihadoncegonedowntotheriverbank,catchingagreatmanywormsandwasafterwardspunishedbymum.ihadevercutthepillowtowelintopiecesinordertomakeclothesformydolls.similarly,iwasthenblamedseriously.onceievenputthehotirononthefloorwhichimmediatelyburntabigholeonthecarpet.althoughihaddonesomanyannoyingthings,mychildhoodseemedtoberathercolourful.however,ihadneverhadacleardefinitionaboutmyself.butthensomethinghappened.ithadmadeagreatdifferencetomylifeandmadewhoiamnow.
ihadalwaysbeenafraidofhavingtheintravenousdropinhospital.thefirsttimeiwastakentohavethedrop,icriedforalmosthalfanhourandfinallygaveoffatfather'sseverescolding.watchingthecoldneedlestabbingintomyskin,icriedevenmoreloudly.atthattime,ineverdaredtotakeaglanceatmyhandandalwaysneededmymothertostaywithmeatmyside.evenifmumhadtoldmemanytimes,"honey,there’snothingtobescaredof.justcloseyoureyesandsleep."iwouldstillkeepmyeyeswideopen,watchingtheliquidflowthroughthebottleandneverslept.
nevertheless,thingsjusthappenedinacasualway.whenicaughtahighfeveragainwhenyoung,mumhadtosendforthedoctorhometotreatme.iwassosickthatibecamequitedrowsyandthenslept.whenisuddenlywokeupintheafternoon,ifoundtheliquidinthebottlehadalreadyflownover,whilemumanddadwerenotaround.iyelled,butfinallyfounditwasofnouse.soijumpedoutofthebedandpulledupthetubule.inthenatureofthings,thebloodcameoutanddroppedalongthewayiwentdownstairs.thingsbecamedifferentatthetimeiwentdownalone.idiscoveredthaticouldbeindependent.iwasmuchh2erthanihadthought.lookingbackonthegirlwhocriedallday,icametounderstandsuddenlythattheh2partoftheinnermyselfhadbeenexistingallthetime.seeingtheanxiousmum,irevealedabigsmiletoher.icouldseethatmumwastryingtoholdhertearsbackandscrubbedmybloodonthehand.shedidn'tknowthatherlittlegirlhadstealthilygrownup.
sincethen,ibecameh2er.asyouseenow,standinginfrontofyouisaconfidentandsunnygirl.inmygrown-uplife,i'venevercriedforbeinginjurednomatterhowseriousitis.icanevengotothehospitalalonewhenmumanddadareonbusiness.icameacrosomanydifficultiesinlife,whilei'veneverthoughtofgivingup.thankstothatextraordinaryexperienceatmyageoften,idiscoveredapersoninsidemyselfwhohasbeensoimportantanduniquetome.justlikewhatdadhadtoldmebefore,"peopleareliketeabags—youhavetoputtheminhotwaterbeforeyouknowhowh2theyare."
ioftenwonderwhatfriendshipis.friendshipistoobigatopictotalkabouteitherspecificallyorgenerally.iguemostofusarestillinapuzzlingstateaboutwhatfriendshipis,andimyselfshouldbeincluded.maybepeoplewhodefinefriendshipaccordingtohisownlifeexperiencewillsaythattheyhaveagoodconceptoffriendship,whichithinkistoonarrowtogetanobjectivedefinitionofit.buthowharditwouldbetotalkaboutfriendshipwithoutmixingpersonalfeelinginit,especiallywhenitcomestothematterofclosestfriend.sohereiwouldliketosharemyviewswithyouaboutfriendship,aboutmyclosestfriend.
ihavehadfriendssinceiwasborn,someofwhomhavecomealongwithmethroughmylife,anditisimpossibletoalwayskeepyourfriendsaroundyousincedepartureisonepartoflifethateverybodymustexperience.thoughsomeofyoumayopposemebyexaggeratingtheconnotationoftheconceptofbeingtogetherthatisfriendsmaynotstaytogetherphysicallybuttheycanstaytogetheralwayspsychologically,istillholdthatdepartureisanabsolutething.howcoulditbepossiblethatyourfriend(evenyourclosestfriend)alwayskeepsyouinheartashe/shehad,ishavingandwillhavedifferentexperiencesfromyours?somehowdifferentexperiencesmakeupofdifferenthearts.man’sheartisaquitestrangething.neverthinkthatonecanwhollytouchit.sometimesourheartissoabstractthatyoudon’tevenknowhowtogettothem.ifwetakeheartasacube,andclosestfriendagentlebreeze,thisbreezecanonlyblowonefacetofthiscubefromonedirectionandcanrarelyreachanyothersidesofyourheart.
i’mnotsurewhetherihaveputitveryclearlybutbelievemethattherearenofixedclosestfriendinyourlife.withdifferenttime,place,space,emotionandsituation,youhavedifferentclosestfriends.wheniplaybasketball,ihaveaclosestfriendwhoknowshowtocooperatewithmeandtogethergiveouropponentsadeadlyattack;wheniamaloneandfeelsolonely,ihaveafriendwhocanalwayscomfortmebysayingthatheismyfriend;wheniaminneedofmoney,theonewhocomesallthewayandlendhismoneytomewithoutanyhesitationismyclosestfriend;wheniamproudandafrienddarestostandouttowarnmethatishouldkeepmodest,heismyclosestfriend;and,whenireadoldmanandthesea,ithinkhemingwayismybestfriend.
youseethen,howmanyclosestfriendsihave.butimustsay,thoughialwayswanttokeepalloftheminmyheart,theyarenotactuallyalwaysinmyheart.theyhavetheirownfriendsandtheirownlife.winstonchurchilloncesaidthatthere’snoperpetualfriend,norperpetualenemy,onlyperpetualinterest.iguehe’srightinsomeway.personallyithinkitisashameforpeoplewhotakeapetashisclosestfriendasthisisasheerinsulttohumanbeingandanabsoluteindignityforthewordfriendship.
ifadogishisclosestfriend,whatishumantohim?youcanimaginehowwouldapersonwithhisanimalclosestfrienddotopeople.andmaybesometimesadogcangivehimmentalcomfort,butwhatadoglikesbestisjustabone.friendshipisindeedaninborndesireofmankind,anditisrelationshipbetweenpeople,notbetweenpeopleandanimals.ifyouseekfriendship,pleaseseekitfrompeople,frompeoplearoundyou.actuallyihavemuchmoretosaybut…yourcriticismwelcome
amatorylovehasbeenamysteryforages.there'sneitheracriteriontojudgenoracommonruletofollow.nobodycantelltheexactreasonswhyloveemerges.itisnotalwaysbecauseofbeauty(theuglydoorkeeperquasimodointhehunchbackofnotredameislovedbythebeautifulgypsygirlesmeralda),norkindness(hitleralsohashismistress),norwisdom(eventheblockheadmaysometimesmarryabeautifulgirl),norstrength(somelovestartsfromsympathy).trueloveislikegettinganelectricshock,shakingoursoul.itisasweetdream,akindofintoxication,indulgence,andendlesspassion.
truelovedoesn'tneedalongtimetogrowup,tomakeclearthefamilytreeoftheother,neitherdoesitneedsthetimetolookaheadandbehindagainandagain.loveisnotmarriage,whichusuallystartsfromlove,butdoesn'talwaysdependonlovetomaintain.long-lastingmarriagecaneventuallyturnintoakindoffamilylove,akindofcompanionshipwhichpreservesthecompanionbutlosesthepassion.loveisoftenanwinkoftheeye,orasmilethathintsmutualunderstanding.inspiteofthegreatdistancebetweenthem,peoplemayfallinloveincidentally.hencethesaying“adistantmarriageistiedupwithamysteriousthread”.loveneedspassion,anditcanstandbumpsandstumbles,upsanddowns,complaintsandblames.whenitturnsintoapoolofwater,especiallydeadwater,withoutanybillowsorwaves,it'stimeforittodie.
asweknow,youhavetolearnhowtoflymuchmoreindependentlyinsteadofunderyourparents’considerateprotectionwhenyougetintocollege,whichalsomeansyouwillcomeacrossenormousquestionsthatshouldbesolvedbyyourself.frommypointofview,thosemainproblemscanfallintothreeparts.
firstofall,thecomplicatedrelationship.foronething,youhavetoknowhowculturaldifferencesfunctioninyourrelationshipandrespectthem.inaddition,collegestudentsspendlesstimestudyingtogetherowingtodifferentcourses’choosing,whichrequiresustodevotemoreenergytobuildingrelationship.fortheotherthing,itisalsovitaltocommunicatewithyourparentsoftenbyusingmobilephonesorothertools.
htmlsecondly,thetemptations.thecollegeservesusamorerelaxedenvironmentmixedwithothertemptationssuchastheinternet,alcoholsandsoon.what’smore,thecollegeteacherswon’tcompelyoutostudylikebefore,youdozeofforplaycellphoneinclass,andyoufleeupthemorningclassbecauseyougetuptoolate.suchtoofrequentbehaviorswillcrippleyourpassionandenthusiasmtowardslife,soitisessentialforustoresistthesetemptationsandinsistpursuingourowngoals.
thirdly,thebalancebetweenstudyandwork.mostofuswillchoosetotakeaparttimejobtoearntheextramoneyorjusttoexerciseourselves.butitissignificanttokeeparelativelybalancedrelationshipbetweenthemsinceialwaysregardthestudyasourmaintask,somyprincipleisadjustingworktofollowthescheduleofstudy.
inconclusion,whateverissueswemeetormiserieswesufferfrom,confrontthehashrealityheadon,whatwecandoisrememberingthepast,livinginthepresentandlookingforwardtothefuture.
delicaciesaretasty,buteatingeverydaycanstillmakeoneloseappetite.happinessiswhateveryonelongsfor,buttoomuchhappinesscanspoilpeoplewhomaynotcareaboutthehappinesstheyalreadyhave.it'suniversaltoliveinhappinesswithoutknowingit.thesameistruewithlove.veryfewpeoplecanlovethesamepersonpassionatelyalltheirlives.alllovestoriescometoanendnomatterhowbeautifultheyare,whichalsodemonstratethechangeabilityoflove.whatonehasbeenchasingwildlymayturnintosomethingonewantstogetridofdesperatelyintheend.besides,loveisusuallyblind,especiallythosewhofallinloveatthefirstsight.attheverybeginning,bothtrytodemonstratetheirbeautifulsideandcoveruptheirweakness.fooledbythemysteriouscoloroflove,oneoftenmistakestheweaknessesasmerits.however,astimepassesby,frequentcontactsmakeonebored,andevenmeritsbecomedefects,andthentheendofloveiscoming.what'smore,therearethecapriciousmenandwomenwhonevertakeloveseriously,leavingthedevotedonessufferingalone.thesayingthatthedevotedisalwaysabandonedbytheheartlesshasalmostbecomethetruthofloveaffairs.whatwecan'tneglectisthatlovemayturnintohatred,andloversmayalsobecomeenemies.thebestproofisthenumerousdivorces.