Frommypointofview,weshouldchangeourselveswhenthesituationcan’tbechangedanymore.Difficultieshideineverycornerofourlifesowehavetofacethemattimes.Buttheproblemisthatwesometimesarenotabletochangethechallengingsituationsatallasourabilitiesarelimited.Whenitcomes,we’dbetterchangeourattitudetowardsthesedifficulties.Onlyinthiswaycanwegetridofthetoughsurroundingsandbehappy.
Somethinglikethathappenedtomeonce.TherewasatimewhenIwaslaughedatbymyclassmateswhileIwaswalking.IwaspuzzledsoIaskedthemwhytheylaughedatme.OneofthemtoldmethatthewayIwalkedwasverystrangeandfunny.IwassadbutIjustcouldn’tchangethewayIwalked.Andthesituationofbeinglaughedatbythosepeopledidn’tstop.Therefore,Ichangedmyattitudetowardstheincident.IignoredthosecommentsonmeandwalkedasIusedto.ThecommentssoondisappearedandIwassogladtohavesucceededinthequietwar.
Soinmyopinion,weshouldchangeourselvesfirstandthenthesituationcanbechangedatlast.Itisverydifficultforustochangeoursurroundingsbutmucheasiertochangeourselves.Peoplearounduswillseeourchange,afterwhichtheymaychangetheirattitudetowardus.
Thingsintheworldarechanging.
Peoplearechangingandeverycreatureischanging.Changingisaneutralword.Wecan’tjudgeitisgoodorbadingeneral,becauseeverycoinhastwosides.Butsometimesweneedtochange,becauseitisgoodforus.Sometimeswewillmeetsomedifficultoruncomfortablesituation.Whenwearenotabletochangeit,weneedtochangeourselves.Ifbothofusrefusetobudge,theproblemwouldnotbesolved.Sometimesweneedtochangeourlifeattitude;sometimesweneedtochangeourviewsofseeingthings;sometimesweneedtotolerant;sometimesweneedtobestrong.
Changingourselvesaccordingtothespecificsituationisgoodforus.
Changeisindispensabletolifeaaction,perhaps,youwillchangetheircareer,maybeyou‘llchangeyourstatus,butwhateveroneselfforeveristhemostimportant.
Change,canmakeyoumoreharmoniousandhiscolleagues,canmakeyoulookmoreexcellent,canmakeotherpeopletoyouisverysatisfied,canmakeyoumoreupalevel!Change,isthebestchoice.
Ayoungmancametoworkinacompany,atfirstheholdallkindsofloftygoalswanttodoagreatbusiness,butthenhefound;Thecompanyallthewayupandout,asinhisheislikeair,invisible,andgenerallyfeelit,asdoesnotexistgenerally......Variouspressuresandpromptedhimtowanttodissatisfactionwithanothercompanytobeginhiswork,thenewjourney,butabestfriendssaidtohim,"nowfindaproperisnoteasy,whydon‘tyoulookatyourself,thendecide?"Heembracedtheideaoftrystayed.Indeedhefound,hisownperformanceisnotoutstanding,theattitudeisnotfriendlytocolleagues,toworkisn‘taggressiveenough...Finallyhearudeawakening,afterthat,hebecamemorefriendly,active,workhard......Alsonolongerasusualgoitalone,whenheagainmeetthebestfriends,theyoungmanhasbeenpromotedasamanager.
Changeyourself,changeissuccessfulstatebefore,trytochangetheirshortcomings,willgiveyouabrilliant!!!!!Once,inneartheexaminaweekforseveraltimes,test,Ilost,intheheartaremorseful,feelthattheycouldn‘tsavegoodgrades,ischangeremindsme,makemechangethelearningmethods,wonthefinalvictory.
Changeyour,makeoneselfmoreoutstanding,moreperfect,letlifeshineforchange.