Onlyinthebabyfromcryingwah-wah,thatweinvokethefirstwordswhisperedparentslearntowalkthefirsttimetowalksmallfootstaggeringalong.Thefirsttimecarryingabagtoschool,thefirsttestscoresback,thefirstfromtheirparents......maybeyou'venevernotedthismanytimesinthefirst,inthegrowthofthislongroadtotheparentshowmuchtopayintotheHowmuchlove.Everytimeyousmile,everysuccess,andevenfailedeverytime,everymistakeinthemindsofparentswillneverforget,toaccompanyyouaround,giveyouthesupportofsilence......
Wecomefrom?Tohearthisissue,Iamsureyouwillsaythatparentsbringusupintheworld.Yesah,thedaythirteenyearsago,ourparentswithtears,smilesandhappinesstogreetourarrival.Wecametotheworldfromthemomentthatmanyparentshaveaheavywork-totakecareofus.Althoughthisisaheavyburden,butthebaby's"Wah-Wah"bringtothenursery,wegrowup,parentsspendmuchoftheeffortandsweat,howmanydaysandnightsweaving,parentshavenocomplaints.
Small,Ialwayslovetheirparentsasamatterofcourse,becauseIdonotunderstandthehardworktheirparentsdonotknow.Now,Igrewup,andIknowwithaheartofThanksgivingtoappreciatetheirparents,shouldtakecare,theresponsibilityofyourparents.
Buthowmanypeopleistogivetopprioritytotheparentsthen?SomepeoplealwayscomplainabouttheirparentstodoOh,no,thatdoesnot,thebehaviorofparentsandpracticesofselectivity,toaccuse,orevendirectlycontradictwiththeirparents!Somepeopledonotknowtheirownphysicalhealthstatusofparents,parentsdonotremembertheirbirthday,andsomeeventheirownparentsintheworkunitswhichdonotknow,tothinkofit,parentspaysomuchforourenergyandeffortsah!
Whenweareconfrontedwithdifficulties,todevoteallofthepeopletohelpusparents.
Whenwearewronged,tobepatienttolistentoourcryofthepeople,aretheparents.
Whenwemakemistakes,wecannothesitatetoforgiveus,andparents.
Whenwesucceed,wouldlikeforustocelebrate,tosharewithusthejoyoftheparents.
Nowwearefarinthefieldstudy,weremainconcernedabouttheirparents.
Lifeisnotimaginedastheperfectparentsfortheirhardthatwecannotunderstand,althoughwecannotlivewiththeirparentstosharethehardshipsofadifficultstart,butwecanbelessintheirdailylivesfortheirparentstoworryabout.Whenparentsfallill,weshouldbetakingresponsibility,takingcareoftheirparents?Toknowthatevenifaninterestinwords,evenagoodhotbowlofinstantnoodlesthemselves,theirparents,whowillcomforttheheartsofouranxietyineverypossibleway.
Thanksgivingheartoflifeisbetter,lifeislikeapieceofwhitepaper,withtheheartofThanksgiving,thispaperwillbepink.Thanksgivingembraceoflife,thebackgroundpaperisalsopink,andwillhaveabetterlife.
Iftodayismylastdayoflife,wearethefirstthingtodoistoreturneducationtotakecareofmemyparents!"Thewater-en,whenthespringsofnewspaper."Parentsnottomentiontheeffortswehavenotjust"drop",butavastocean.
Thanksgiving,althoughitisanactoftheverb,butitneedsmoreaction,moreimportantly,needstobedoneingoodfaith.Toputitsimply,Thanksgivingisgratitude,gratitudefromtheheart.
Weallhaveparents,buttheirloveforusisdifferent.IwatchedasceneonTVthatday.Letmetellyousomethingaboutit!
Thisisacouplewhohaveachild,buttheydislikethattheirchildisagirl,sotheylettheirgrandmotherraisethegirl.Thetwoofthemliveaveryhardlife.Whenthegirlreachestheageofschool,becausethereisnotenoughtuitionathome,shedoesn'tgotoschool,butthegirldoesn'tgiveupalittlehope.Sheborrowsthebooksofthechildrenoftheneighbor'sfamily,andthenmendsthemwithherlittlehands.Finally,sheCanread,butjustsawalittlehope,thegirlsufferedfromlungcancer,soonlefthergrandmother,herparentshaveneverseentheirownchildren,thegirldidnotseethem,sothegirlleftthemwithregret.What'sthedifferencebetweenthemandanimals?
Iammuchhappierthanthisgirl.Wearestillchildrennow.Ihopeourparentsdon'ttreatuslikethis.Nomatteraboyorachildishisownflesh,whocanbesocruel?
Hopeparentscaremoreabouttheirchildren!
Onedaymorethanadecadeago,ourparentswithtears,smilesandhappinesstogreetourarrival.Butwhenwecametotheworldatthemoment,theparentshavemoreofaheavywork-totakecareofus.Althoughthisisaheavyburden,buttheparentshavenocomplaintsandIgrewupraising.Inordertogiveusacomfortablelivingenvironment,theyarealwayssohard,thentheeffort.Small,Ialwaystreatthisissueasamatterofcourse,becauseIdonotunderstandthehardworktheirparentsdonotknow.Now,Igrewup,andIknowwithaheartofThanksgivingtoappreciatetheirparents,shouldtakecare,theresponsibilityofyourparents.
Sunisjustpastmy20thbirthdaythatday,IwouldfirstthinkofThanksgivingistoparents,becausemyparentshaveonlygivesmetheopportunitytosavortheworldofcolorfulandwell-beingoflife,enjoylifehappinessandwell-being,isthattheygavemelife,gavemethecareofineverypossibleway.Withsonsanddaughtershappy,happymostoftheparents,childrenwithdepression,itismostconcernedabouttheparents.Lickingthecalflove,parentallove,deepasthesea.Therefore,nomatterthesocialstatusofparents,levelofknowledgeandotherqualities,theyareourgreatestbenefactorthislifeisworthyofourloveofthepeopleforever.
Studentsmightsaynothingoftheirownblessings,butforparents,thissoundabetterblessingthananything,areunforgettable,aresufficienttoenablethemtotears!
Ihaveafatherandamotherwholoveme.
Myfatherisadepartmentmanager.Heoftentravelsinotherplaces.Everytimehecallsmeonabusinesstrip,thenextday,hewillfindthatmymobilephonehasamessageofloveandencouragementfrommyfather.EverytimeIreadthemessagefrommyfather,Ialwayswanttocry.Inthisline,itshowsmyfather'sloveforme.Althoughmyfatheroftenlivesinothercountries,hecaresandmissesmeverymuch.IfImissmyfatherthatnight,Iwillcryloudlyandbitterlyuntilmymothercomestocomfortme.Myfatherworksoutsideeveryday,andalsowantsmetohaveagoodlearningenvironmentsothatIcangetsomethingfromothers.Myfatheristhegreatestinmyheart.
"Thelineinthehandsofalovingmother,theclothesofawanderingchild..."WheneverIreadapoemlike"wanderingsonchanting",Ialwaysthinkofmymother.Mymotherisabusinessman,andsheoftenrunsaroundforthebusinessintheshop,butthisisalsoforme.Busymother,inordertosupportherfamilyinthedaytime,playsagainstthesunorthewindandrain.Atnight,sheshouldhavehadarestintheday,butsheusedmostofthesetimetohelpmewithmylessons.Inordertoimprovemyperformance,shewillgotoagooduniversityinthefutureandgrowuptobeausefulperson.Irememberthatonenight,Ihadgonetobedandfoundthattherewasstillalightinmymother'sroom.Iwentovercuriously.Fromthecrackofthedoor,Isawthatmymotherwasholdinganeedletomendmybrokenpants.Mymother'sbackwasbentandstitchedcarefully.Ican'thelpbutshedtearswhenIseehere.WhenIwentbacktomybed,IthoughtofwhatsceneIhadjusthad.Itwasagoodmotherwholovedmeandhurtme.
Writehere,myheartlikeoverturnedvinegar,sour,mypenisquivering,andcannothelpbutshedtears.Iamveryhappytohaveafatherandmotherwholoveme.
mother'slove
mother'sloveisthegreatestintheworld。oneevening，itwasraininghardanditwasverydarkoutside。suddenlyigotabadheadache。mymotherfeltmyheadandfoundthatihadahighfever。shewassoworriedthatshitookmeonthebacktothenearbyhospitalatonce。
atthattime，itwasaboutmidnightanditwasrainingevenharder。ilookeddownatmymotherandfoundthatshewaswalkinghardintheheavyrain。icouldn'tkeepbackmytears。whenshewastootiredtowalkon，sheletmedown。butwhenshefoundicouldhardlystand，shetookmeonthebackagainandwentonwalking。whenwegottothehospital，shewasoutofbreath。thedoctorlookedmeovercarefullyandletmetakesomehotwaterandsomemedicine。
onthewayhome，ifeltalittlebetter。soitoldmymotherthatcouldwalkslowlybymyself。butmothertookmeinthebackwithoutaword。whenwegothome，motherfelltothefloor。shewastootired!thenextdayifeltmuchbetter，butmothergotill。
whatagreatmother!howgreatmother'sloveis!
Sinceschool,Ihavesleptbymyself,butIamnotalonebecausemymothercomestoseemeeveryday.
Once,intheevening,mymothercametomybedasusual,kissedmyface,touchedmyhead,"ah!"mymotherjumpedup,"it'ssohot!"mymotherdidn'tcareaboutanything,huggedmeandranout,"Ihaven'tgotmywalletyet!"Saiddad."Sendyourwalletdown!"Themotherreplied.Usuallythefastestdadinthefamilycan'trunwithoutholdingmymothertoday.Whenmymotherstoppedataxionthesideoftheroad,myfathercameupwithmeandgasped,"givemethewallet.""ShallIgowithyou?""Whatever!""Ah!Ihaven'tlockedthedooryet!"
Afterawhile,wearrivedatthehospitalbycar.Assoonaswegotoffthebus,mymotherrushedintotheemergencyroomwithmeinherarms.Hangupthenumber,momhurriedtotheemergencyroomtofindme,"haven'tchangedyet!"Thepeopleintheregistrationroomshouted,"nomore!"Momwillnotgoback.
WhenIwasinline,mymotherdidn'tleaveforamoment.Iwasafraidthatsomeonewouldaddaplug.WhenIfinallyarrived,thedoctorhelpedmeprescribethemedicineandtheneedle,mymotherwasrelieved.
Mymotherisverypeacefulatordinarytimes.Today,becauseIamill,mymotherhasbecomeverybrave.Maybethisismaternallove!
Fromsmalltolarge,IthinkIamthehappiestchildintheworld,becausemyparents'loveformeishigherthantheskyanddeeperthanthesea.
Once,whenIwasinschool,IsuddenlyfeltmyheadhurtsomuchthatIcouldnothearthelesson.TheteacherfoundthatIwaspaleandnotright.Iaskedmyparentsaftercallingthereason.Inafewmoments,momanddadcame.Mymotherhurriedtomeandtouchedmyforeheadandsaidnervously,"ah!Whyisitsohot?Itlookslikeafeveriscomingtothehospital!"Momtookmyhand,Dadcarriedmyschoolbag,andwewentstraighttothehospital.Inthecar,mymothercomfortedme,"nothingiswrong.Iwillbegoodwithyouandyourfatherinanydisease.Youareamanandmustbeh2!"WhenIgottothehospital,mymotherhurriedlyfoundthedoctorandsaid,"seemysonquickly!"Thedoctorwalkedoverandlookedatmewithaglimpseofit.Hesaid,asifnothinghappened,"smallthings,justdropthestream!"Atlast,momandDadwererelieved.WhenIwasdripping,Dadsometimeswentouttobuydeliciousfoodforme.Sometimeshewentouttobuytoysforme,andsometimessatbesidethebedtomakemehappy.Mommymassagemyheadforawhile,pressmyshoulderforawhile,askmeifI'mhungryornot,andwashmyfruitforawhile.Lookingatit,myeyesmoistened,andawarmcurrentsurgedintomyheart.MomandDadwereverykindtome.Iamthehappiestchildintheworld.Iwasallrightsoonaftermomanddadlookedafterthem.Butmomanddadarebusyandthin.Icangotoschool,theylookhappy!
MomandDad,it'sabookthatcan'tberead.Theygivemelove,Iwillneverforgetit.NowIhavetostudyhard,findagoodjobwhenIgrowup,andrepaymyparents.
Peoplesaythatamother’sloveisgreat,isselfless,isfromyouplannedto.Thereisasongissosing"regardlessofwindandrain,mymotherneverholiday,worktohome…"Yes,itiswithmymother?Sincethechildhood,Ialwaysinthemother’sarmsandselflesslovetogrow.
Rememberinthesummer,motherisalwayswithastalkrepelmosquitoesforme;Inthewinter,motheralwaysputtheheateronmyside…Beforeyouknowit,Iwasthirteenyearsold.Overtheyears,mothertomycare,justlikethestarsofheaven,andcountless;Asfarthevalleyofthemountains,towering;Liketheblueskyofthesea,andunfathomable.ThiskindofaffectionisIrepayyou.
Atthistime,mymothersleptsoundly,Irememberedthatmymotheryesterdaytoseegrandpa,athomeanddoalotofwork,mustbeverytired.Ididn’tlikeatordinarytimeswillshewakeup,letherdobreakfastforme.Awhim,butIwilldobreakfastforher.
Ipouroilfirst,openthegasburner,waituntiltheoilboil,pourintothegoodeggs,spreadonthepan,afterawhile,turnedover,andthenturnofftheheat.Removeit,onthechoppingblock.Iuseaknifetocarveoutalove,putinthedishwash,andfindoutthecherryjuiceintheabovewritealong-simmeringword–"mother,Iloveyou!"Thencarefullyselectedseveralsimilarsize,color,redstrawberry,aroundthe"box"withacircle.Great!
Icarefullyintotheroomandfoundmotheralreadywokeup.Ihurrieddowntheplate,sneaktothesittingroomtodothehomework.
Isecretlytookaglancetotheroom,Ifoundafewhongyun,smileappearedonthemother’seyeswerefullofjoy.Isgentlycallingme:"laein,d.son,Iloveyou,too!"
Motherhugme,togetherweeatyourloveeggs,momsmiledinrelief,Ialsosmiledlafort.
Whogivesmebirth?Whobringsmeup?Whodedicateshis/herwholelifetome?Myparents.
Whogivesmefood?Whogivesmeclothes?Whogivesmecare?Myparents.
Myparents,theydon’twanttogetanyrewardfromme.Notonlymyparents,alltheparentsintheworlddon’tchargeanythingfromtheirchildren.theygiveuseverythingtheycan.theyspendtheirwholelifelovingme,soIlovemyparents,too.SinceIwasgivenbirth,I’vestartedtolovethemevenifIdidn’trealizeit.
Itwillbetheatimeformybirthdaysoon.Iwanttosaytomyparents:Iloveyou.
whogivesmebirth?whobringsmeup?whodedicateshis/herwholelifetome?myparents.
whogivesmefood?whogivesmeclothes?whogivesmecare?myparents.
myparents,theydon’twanttogetanyrewardfromme.notonlymyparents,alltheparentsintheworlddon’tchargeanythingfromtheirchildren.theygiveuseverythingtheycan.theyspendtheirwholelifelovingme,soilovemyparents,too.sinceiwasgivenbirth,i’vestartedtolovethemevenifididn’trealizeit.
itwillbethetimeformybirthdaysoon.iwanttosaytomyparents:iloveyou.
Peopleoftensay,"fatherloveisamountain,andmotherlyloveislikewater."Yes,theloveofparentsisthegreatestloveintheworld.Fatherloveissilent,undisclosed,notgoodatlanguageexpression,andfatherloveislikeamountaintogivemeasoliddependence:andmotherloveiswarm,withtenderlove,motherloveasbroadasthesea,unfathomable.Parents'loveisindispensableandirreplaceableinourlife.
IrememberIsprainedmyfootcarefullytheweekbefore.IthoughtIwouldbeabletopassit,butmyillnessdidnotworkwellafternoon.Ifeltahardtosaythepainintomyfoot,Itoldmyfatherandmother,theysawmesoanxious,eventheclassdidnotgoup,Iwentstraighttothehospitaltoseethedoctor,dadinordertoletmyleglessforce,Dad'sbacktired,Ihave100Jinafterall!Untilthreeintheafternoon,thedoctorsaidhewantedtoputaneedleinmyhand,whichmademymotherfeelbadandIdidn'tknowhowmuchitwas.
Iendurethepainofillness,butenjoythemeticulouscareofmyfatherandmother.Ithinkthisislove.Ihopethislovewillneverdisappear.MomandDad,thankyou.
MomandDad,thankyouforyourcareandwarmth.Thankyouforyourgreatcare.Thankyouforgivingmeahappylife.
Thereisnodoubtthatparentsloveusthemostintheworld,theygiveuslivesandnurseustobeanindependentpeople.Nomatterwhatdifficultiesweface,theyarealwaysbehindusandoffersupport.Thewaytheyloveusisdifferentandwecanfeelloveisaround.
Mymotherisahousewife.ShesacrificesomuchwhenIwasborn.Nowadays,womenareadvocatedtobeacareerwoman,andtheytreatedtobesuccessfuliftheycanmanagethefamilychoreswellatthesametime.Mymothergaveuphercareer.Inmyeye,shedoesthemostgreatjobintheworld.Thehouseshecleansandthefoodshecooks,alloftheseworkrequiresomuchpatienceandonlytheonewithh2willcandoit.
Myfatherdoesn’ttalkmuch,buthewillnevermisseveryimportantmomentofme.EverynightbeforeIsleep,hewillcheckmyhomeworkandaskmethelatestsituation.ThecomfortablethingisthatheneverputsmehardandIamsopleasedtotalkwithhim.
Lovefromparentsmakesmeh2erandIwillfightformyfuture.
Schoolisover.Thestudentsallranoutoftheclassroomtotheschoolgate.ButIstandaloneattheentranceoftheteachingbuilding,waitingformymothertopickmeup.
It'srainingheavily.Ilookedatmywatch.Itwasalready12:00.Mymotherhasn'tcomeyet.Mytearscouldn'thelpbutflowdown.
Ah,thereisnooneoncampus.Suddenly,Isawamanwithanumbrellacomingtome.Yeah-it'smom.It'smom.
"Baby,I'mheretopickyouup."Mothersaid,pantingalittle.
Ontheway,mymothercoughedafewtimes.Itsuddenlyoccurredtomethatmymotherhadbeenillforseveraldays.IthinkIhavenoconsciencewhenmymothercomestopickmeupbecausesheissoill.Foramoment,Ifellintomymother'sarms.
Atthistime,arainbowappearedinthesky.Mymothersaid,"therainbowisbeautiful."Isaid,"butIthinkthemostbeautifulthingintheworldismother'slove."
Peoplewouldliketoaskthekidswhotheylikebetterbetweentheirparents,theymaybemakefunofthekids,whileforthekids,theywillconsideratethequestionveryseriouslyandcan'tdecidewhoisbetter.
Ineverfigureoutwhoisbetter,becauseinmyheart,bothofmyparentsaregood.
Mymothertakescareofmeallthetime,shetakesresponsibilityofmydailythings,thoughmyfatherisbusy,Iknowheworkssohardtoraisemyfamily.
Ilovetheminthesameway,whattheydoisformybetterfuture.
Iamsothankfultothem,soImuststudyhard,forthepurposeofreturningtheirlove.
Iconsidermyparentsasthemostimportantpeopleinmylife.Thisisnotbecausetheyrewealthyorfamous.Rather,whatIvalueaboutmostisthecareandlovetheyshowtome.
Myparentsmightworkhard,buttheyrealwaysthereforme.WheneverIgetintotroubleanddesperatelyneedahand,theycomeoverfirsttosupportmeandencourageme.Igrewupwiththeirconstantcareandlove.Whiletheyregettingolderwithgreyhairandwrinkles,theyneverlosedignityinbothlifeandjobs.
Frommyparents,Ihavelearnedthatonepersoncanreallymakeadifference.Illneverforgettheircareandlove.Gratefulnessbringsagreatfullnesstolife.Iwishtheycouldalwaysbehappyandhealthy.Itishightimeweexpressedourgratitudetopeoplewecherish!
mothersloveisthegreatestintheworld.oneevening,itwasraininghardanditwasverydarkoutside.suddenlyigotabadheadache.mymotherfeltmyheadandfoundthatihadahighfever.shewassoworriedthatshitookmeonthebacktothenearbyhospitalatonce.
atthattime,itwasaboutmidnightanditwasrainingevenharder.ilookeddownatmymotherandfoundthatshewaswalkinghardintheheavyrain.icouldntkeepbackmytears.whenshewastootiredtowalkon,sheletmedown.butwhenshefoundicouldhardlystand,shetookmeonthebackagainandwentonwalking.whenwegottothehospital,shewasoutofbreath.thedoctorlookedmeovercarefullyandletmetakesomehotwaterandsomemedicine.
onthewayhome,ifeltalittlebetter.soitoldmymotherthatcouldwalkslowlybymyself.butmothertookmeinthebackwithoutaword.whenwegothome,motherfelltothefloor.shewastootired!thenextdayifeltmuchbetter,butmothergotill.
whatagreatmother!howgreatmothersloveis!
Everytimemymotheraccompaniesmetodomyhomework,guidesmeagainandagain,helpsmetocheckthemistakesinmyhomework,howhardmymotheris!
IrememberthatwhenIgotbronchopneumonia,itdidn'tworkafterfivedaysofinjection.WhenIwenttoBinzhou,itdevelopedintobronchopneumonia,andIgotanothersevendaysofinjection.Inthedayofhomeinjection,Iwashungry.Mymotherfedmericeonemouthfulatatime,thirsty,andfedmewateronemouthfulatatime.Iwasverymoved.Thosedays,mymotheralsohelpedmewithmyhomework,laundry,cookingandtakingcareofthebusinessintheshop.Mymotherwastoohard!Irealizedmymother'slove.
Tomorrowis"three.Eight"women'sday,Iwanttogivemymotherasurprise.".Whatareyougoingtodo?It'sasecretfornow.
Today,mysandalsarebroken.I'mnothappy.Whenmomsawit,sheboughtmeshoeswithoutsayinganything.Iamlookingforwardtomymotherbuyingmeapairofbeautifulnewshoes.
Allofasudden,itwascloudyandsoonitbegantorainheavily.I'mmoreworriedaboutmymothergettingwetandcold.
Momfinallycameback.Herskirtandhairwerewet.Mymothersmiledandtookoutapairofbeautifulnewshoes,whichwerenotwetatall.Mymotherwasafraidtochangeclothesandsaid,"isitsuitableformydaughtertotryitquickly?Doyoulikethestyle?Ifitdoesn'tfit,I'llgobackandchangeit!"
Atthistime,Ideeplyfeltmymother'slove.Iholdmymothertightly,Ifeelsohappy!
Everychildhasparents.Myparentslovemeandbuymeeverything.Ofcourse,Ilovethem.
IrememberatimewhenmymothercametosendmetoschoolintheheavyrainandalmostfelldownwhenIcamehome.Thenextmorning,mymotherdidit.Iwasverysad,andIsaid,letsgo,mom..Momsaid,Idontneedtoseeyouoff..Ihadnochoicebuttoagree.
ate.Isaidloudly,mom,Iloveyou.Mothersmiledcontentedly.
Mom,Iloveyou.Yougaveusthisluckyandrichfamily.Mom,Iloveyou.
Iusedtowriteacompositionisaboutamother'slove,onlyjustrealizedamother'slove.WhenIreadastoryaboutamother'slove,willbegreat.ButwheneverIseeafather,Ifeelveryhypocritical.ButwhenIexperience,toknowthegreatnessofafather.
Myfatherlooksmediocre,sometimesthemoodisnotgoodhewillalsohavethefeelingofdisgust.Hehadnotalent,evennotfinishedelementaryschool,he,withacluelesslookonhisfacewhenIreadEnglishsometimesIjustinmyheartsecretlyscorn.
Inmyeyesheisa"silly".
Onenight,eightmoreminutes,mymothersaidtome:"it'stimeforbed,solate.Againthedon'tcometomorrow."Ihavetohangdownhishead,afaceofinjustice.Ilaidthequilt,Idulllookingatthewhiteceiling.SecretlywonderthatmorningnewEnglishsong"troubleisafriend",atthatmoment,astampedonthegroundofthevoiceisgettingcloserandclosertome,Ibegantopretendtosleep,itismydad,hecametothehouse,hestoppedfootsteps,evensmallpantingbreath,Icanfeelhehasbeentightlystaringatme.Hestoppedforseveralminutes,andthenquietlyleft.
Atthispoint,Iunknowinglyshedtears,don'tknowwhatIto.
I'veseenpeopledescribingafather"thefatherlovesthemountain".Idon'tknowthefather.Infact,fatherisreallyserious,hejustcouldn'texpress.Heneversaid1:"Iloveyou,baby."Suchdisgustingwords.WhenwhatIwant,hewilltrytomeetme.
Myfatherinmylife,alwayswillbeagiver.
Inthatday,Iread-deepafather.
Nowadaysmanyparentshaveacommonsensethattheirchildrenaresoprecioustothemsotheyalwaystrytheirbesttogivetheirchildrenahappyandmeaningfullife.Therefore,anincreasingnumberofparentsspoiltheirchildrenanddoeverythingforthem,evencontroltheirlife.Forexample,manychildrenhavetoobeytheirparent'sideaaboutwhichschooltheyshouldgointoaftertheygraduating;somechildrenmustgotoartclasslikedancing,pianoandpainteventhoughtheyhavenointerestinthem;what'smore,somestrictparentseveninvolvechildren'sfreedomaboutwhatfriendstheyshouldmake.Ononehand,theseparentscareandprotecttheirchildren,however,ontheotherhandtheymaydoharmtotheirchildren.
AsfarasIamconcerned,inisnecessarythatparentsshouldgivetheirchildrenmorespaceandfreedomsothattheirchildrenmaybecomemoreindependent.Forinstance,childrencoulddosomethingtheylike,sotheymaybemuchmoreactiveandresponsible.What'smore,itisalsoagoodwaytolettheirchildrenstudyinaboardingschoolforchildrenmustfacesomethingbytheirown,suchas,theirrelationshipwithfriendsandstudent,theirstudyandbusylifeandsoon.Agoodcaseinpoint,parentsmayencouragetheirchildrentotakepart-timejobsduringsummerorwinterholiday.Bydoingthis,Ibelieve,thesechildrenmaybecomemoreindependent,braveandresponsible.
Insummary,spoilingchildrenisnoright.Parentsshouldknowbetterthatanindependent,responsibleandbravepersonisabletoadaptsocietybetter.