MycollegelifeIamproudofbeingacollegestudent.Ilikemycollegelifeasitissowonderfultimeinmyyouth.Asbeingborninsmallvillageoftheremotecountryside,Ididnthaveagoodeducationenvironment.However,Isetagoalandfeltconfidenttobeacollegestudent.Afterhardstudy,Ipassedtheentranceexaminationofnationalcollegebyexcellentachievement.Allpeoplewereproudofme,asIwasthefirstcollegestudentinmyvillage.
IwasfarewellwarmlybythemwhenIcametoschool.Iwaswarmlywelcomebyschool,too.Afterthen,I’vefeltmystudyisnotonlyformyselfbutalsoforthehonorofmyvillageneighborhoodandourcollegelifeiswonderful.Alllifeinschoolarefresh.Newteachers,newclassmatesandfreshfriendsarearoundme.I’vefelttheirfriendship,wideknowledgeandopeningmind.Thegrandlibrary,schoolbuildingsandwideplaygroundareveryattractingtome.Iamveryeagertolearnmuchknowledgequickly.Inhighschool,Iwasevercalledasarunnerbeforetime.Now,IknowIambehindtimesomuchinfact.Ihopetocatchupwiththetimebymyhardstudying.Everyday,youcanseemegetupearly,doingexercisehardandgotoschoolthefirstone.Atnight,Iamtheonewholeavesawaythelibrary.
有人说，父爱如山。真的，父亲的爱仿佛是隐形的，可是，当我在成长路上遇到困难，遇到风暴，父亲的爱就像一个稳固的彼岸，让我依靠。
Somepeoplesaythatfatherloveslikeamountain.Really,myfather'sloveseemsinvisible,butwhenIencounterdifficultiesandstormsonmywayofgrowingup,myfather'sloveislikeastableothershore,whichIcanrelyon.
父亲不像母亲那样对我嘘寒问暖，但他却暗中关心着我；父亲从不像母亲那样，在我做错事的时候维护我，每次，他总是严厉地责骂我，希望我吸取教训。有时，父亲让人容易亲近，可是有时，我真的不愿和他多说一句话。在他的眼里，我做的一切都是错的，都是不那么好的，为此，我经常和他争论。
Fatherdoesn'tcareaboutmeashismotherdoes,buthecaresaboutmesecretly.FatherneverprotectsmewhenIdosomethingwrongashismotherdoes.Everytime,hescoldsmeseverelyandhopesIcanlearnalesson.Sometimes,fatheriseasytogetcloseto,butsometimes,Ireallydon'twanttosayawordmorewithhim.Inhiseyes,everythingIdoiswrongandnotsogood.Forthisreason,Ioftenarguewithhim.
Once,Iwentonlinetolookforinformation.Thesesimplethingswerefinishedinanhour.ThenwhenIsawboredom,Iwenttoplaygames.Abouthalfanhourlater,Iwasplayingarising,suddenly,myfathercamein,toldmetoreadbookswhenIhadtime,don'tindulgeinthoseuselessonlinegames,andthenheleft.Icanhearhimveryclearly,butIthinkI'llarrangethetime,soIdon'tpayattentiontocontinueplayingthegame.Afterawhile,myfathershoutedinthehall,"ifyouplaythegameagain,youwillbeblind.Don'tregretit!"Ididn'tpayattentiontoit,andcontinuedtoplaymygame.Allofasudden,thescreenwentblackandthewholecomputerdied.LaterIlearnedthatmyfathercutoffthepower.Iamveryangry,althoughso,butIknowthatIcan'tfightmyfather,soIhavetogobacktotheroomtoreview.
Myfathershutdownmycomputerlikethisbecausehedidn'twantmynearsightednesstogetdeeperanddeeper.Hewasaddictedtoonlinegamesandreadmorebooks.Lookingatthecomputerthatcan'tbeturnedon,althoughthereisapieceofunwillingness,thereisapieceofguiltinmyheart.Fatherisright.Ireallyshouldn'tbe.
我知道父亲是关心我的，虽然没有母亲那样坦白。父亲不会赞美我，他是不想我骄傲；父亲不会溺爱我，他是想我做个坚强的人。父亲的爱是无形的，却一直爱护着我的心，他的爱促使我要做一个坚强、勇敢、独立的人，虽然我没有全部都做到，但我还要感谢我的父亲。
Iknowmyfathercaresaboutme,thoughnotascandidasmymother.Fatherwillnotpraiseme,hedoesnotwantmetobeproud;fatherwillnotspoilme,hewantsmetobeastrongperson.Myfather'sloveisinvisible,buthealwayscherishesmyheart.Hisloveurgesmetobeastrong,braveandindependentperson.AlthoughIdon'tdoitall,Istillwanttothankmyfather.
因为，只有父亲，才能令我明白一切真理，无形地成为我心中的力量
Becauseonlyfathercanmakemeunderstandallthetruthandbecomethestrengthofmyheartinvisibly
fatherslove
motherslovewipeoplespraisesforitsselflee.infact,fathersloveisasgreatasthat.theyburytheirloveinthedeepbottomoftheirheartsandwillnevershowit.myfatherisofthiskind.irememberedonceifeltill.motherwatathomeatthatmoment.fatheractedasafatherandasamotheraswell.whenhecamehomefromwork,hewouldcookdierformefirst.thewayhefedmemademethinkofmykindandtendermother.hiseyeswerefullofloveandexpectation.ididfeelafathersloveatthattime.
motherlylovebyitsverynatureisunconditional.motherlovesthenewborninfantbecauseitisherchild,notbecausethechildhasfulfilledanyspecificcondition,orliveduptoanyspecificlovecorrespondsinoneofthedeepestlongings,notonlyofthechild,butofeveryhumanbeing;ontheotherhand,tobelovedbecauseofonesmerit,becauseonedeservesit,alwaysleavesdoubt:maybeididnotpleasethepersonwhomiwanttoloveme,maybethisorthat--thereisalwaysafearthatlovecoulddisappear.furthermore,"deserved"loveeasilyleavesabitterfeelingthatoneisnotlovedforoneself,thatoneislovedonlybecauseonepleases,thatoneis,inthelastanalysis,notlovedatallbutused.nowonderthatweallclingtothelongingformotherlylove,aschildrenandalsoasadults.therelationshiptofatherisquitedifferent.motheristhe
homewecomefrom,sheisnature,soil,theocean;fatherdoesnotrepresentanysuchnaturalhome.hehaslittleconnectionwiththechildinthefirstyearsofhislife,andhisimportanceforthechildinthisearlyperiodcannotbecomparedwiththatofmother.butwhilefatherdoesnotrepresentthenaturalworld,herepresentstheotherpoleofhumanexistence;theworldofthought,ofman-madethings,oflawandorder,ofdiscipline,oftravelandadventure.fatheristheonewhoteachesthechild,whoshowshimtheroadintotheworld.fatherlyloveisconditionallove.itsprincipleis"1loveyoubecauseyoufulfillmyexpectations,becauseyoudoyourduty,becauseyouarelikeme."inconditionalfatherlylovewefind,aswithunconditionalmotherlylove,anegativeandapositiveaspect.thenegativeaspectistheveryfactthatfatherlylovehastobedeserved,thatitcanbelostifonedoesnotdowhatisexpected.thepositivesideisequallyimportant.sincehisloveisconditional,icandosomethingtoacquireit,icanworkforit;hisloveisnotoutsideofmycontrolasmotherlyloveis.
父爱如山父爱是一缕阳光，让你的心灵即使在寒冷的。冬天也能感到温暖如春；父爱是一泓清泉，让你的情感即使蒙上岁月的风尘依然纯洁明净。父爱像一本厚重的书，耐人寻味；父爱像一杯甘醇的酒，回味无穷。
Father'sloveisarayofsunshine,sothatyourheartcanfeelwarmeveninthecoldwinter;father'sloveisaclearspring,sothatyouremotions,evenifcoveredwiththedustoftheyears,arestillpureandpure.Father'sloveislikeaheavybook,intriguing;father'sloveislikeaglassofsweetwine,withendlessaftertaste.
父爱Father’sLove
Peoplealwayssaythatfather’sloveissoquietbutgrandthatitseemslikeamountain.Theyalwaysburytheirlovetochildrendeepinthebottomoftheirheartsandnevershowit.FatherseldomsaysIloveyoutotheirchildrenordoessomethingshowit.Motheroftentellsustoeatmoreandputonmoreclothes,butfatherdoesn’t.Fatherseldomasksyourlifeinschooloryourrelationshipwithyourfriends.Whenyouareintroubleandasksuggestionsfromhim,hewouldnottellyouwhatyoushoulddobuthelpyoutofindsolutionsinstead.However,fatherstillplaysthemostimportantroleinyourlife.Heisalwaysthesupporterofyourlife.Wheneveryouneed,heisalwaysbyyourside.Thisisthewayheshowshislove.
人们总说父爱如山，安静、伟岸，他们总把对孩子的爱深埋心底，从不显露。父亲很少会对孩子说我爱你，也不做什么事去表现自己的爱。妈妈常常会叫我们多吃饭多穿衣，但父亲不会这样。他们很少过问你在学校的生活，也不关心你与朋友们的关系如何。当你遇到问题向他寻求建议时，他不会直接告诉你应该怎样做，而是帮助你找到解决的方法。但是，父亲依然是你生命中最重要的人，他永远是你生活中的坚强后盾。不管何时，只要你需要，他就会在你的身边，这就是他表现爱的方式。
Lovetoushumaniswhatwatertoshinesthemostbeautifullightofhumanity,weborninit,welivebyoftenwetakeitasgranted,butweshouldknowloveisapricelessgiftweshouldhowtocherishthelove?Ihaveheardasaying:thequickestwaytoreceiveloveistogiveit;thefastestwaytoloseloveistoholdittootightlythebestwaytokeeploveistogiveitwings.
Itisimportantforustolearntoloveasthefirstclassinourwhenyouknowhowtolovethanyouwillbearealmaninthisbringsuswarmthinthefearfulcoldness,lovebringsusbrightwhenlifegetshardandbringsusconfidencetowardlifewhenwearetiredoutandwanttogiveup.
Lovedeservesalltheadmiringwords,andloveisevenbeyondthelifeandiswhatloveisallaboutinmyeyes.
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爱我们人类是水对我们的鱼。爱闪耀着人类最美丽的光芒，我们出生在它，我们生活在它。我们经常把它视为理所当然，但我们应该知道爱情是我们应该珍惜的无价的礼物。但是如何珍惜爱情呢？我听到一句话：接受爱最快的方式是给予爱；失去爱的最快方法是抓住它太紧的最好的方法以保持爱是给予它翅膀
对我们来说，学会爱是我们生活中的第一堂课是很重要的。只有当你知道如何去爱，你才会成为这个世界上真正的男人。爱给我们带来温暖，在恐惧的寒冷中，爱给我们带来光明，当生活变得艰难和黑暗。爱使我们对生活充满信心，当我们疲倦，想放弃。
爱值得所有赞美的话，爱甚至超越生死。这就是我眼中的爱。
timeisrunningoutformyfriend.whilewearesittingatlunchshecasuallymentionssheandherhusbandarethinkingofstartingafamily."we'retakingasurvey,"shesays,half-joking."doyouthinkishouldhaveababy?"
"itwillchangeyourlife,"isay,carefullykeepingmytoneneutral."iknow,"shesays,"nomoresleepinginonweekends,nomorespontaneousholidays..."
butthat'snotwhatimeanatall.ilookatmyfriend,tryingtodecidewhattotellher.iwanthertoknowwhatshewillneverlearninchildbirthclasses.iwanttotellherthatthephysicalwoundsofchildbearingwillheal,butbecomingamotherwillleaveherwithanemotionalwoundsorawthatshewillbevulnerableforever.
iconsiderwarningherthatshewillneveragainreadanewspaperwithoutthinking:"whatifthathadbeenmychild?"thateveryplanecrash,everyhousefirewillhaunther.thatwhensheseespicturesofstarvingchildren,shewillwonderifanythingcouldbeworsethanwatchingyourchilddie.ilookathercarefullymanicurednailsandstylishsuitandthinkthatnomatterhowsophisticatedsheis,becomingamotherwillreducehertotheprimitivelevelofabearprotectinghercub.
ifeelishouldwarnherthatnomatterhowmanyyearsshehasinvestedinhercareer,shewillbeprofessionallyderailedbymotherhood.shemightarrangeforchildcare,butonedayshewillbegoingintoanimportantbusinessmeeting,andshewillthinkherbaby'ssweetsmell.shewillhavetouseeveryounceofdisciplinetokeepfromrunninghome,justtomakesureherchildisallright.
iwantmyfriendtoknowthateverydecisionwillnolongerberoutine.thatafive-year-oldboy'sdesiretogotothemen'sroomratherthanthewomen'satarestaurantwillbecomeamajordilemma.theissuesofindependenceandgenderidentitywillbeweighedagainsttheprospectthatachildmolestermaybelurkinginthelavatory.howeverdecisiveshemaybeattheoffice,shewillsecond-guessherselfconstantlyasamother.
lookingatmyattractivefriend,iwanttoassureherthateventuallyshewillshedtheaddedweightofpregnancy,butshewillneverfeelthesameaboutherself.thatherownlife,nowsoimportant,willbeoflessvaluetoheronceshehasachild.shewouldgiveitupinamomenttosaveheroffspring,butwillalsobegintohopeformoreyears—nottoaccomplishherowndreams—buttowatchherchildrenaccomplishtheirs.
iwanttodescribetomyfriendtheexhilarationofseeingyourchildlearntohitaball.iwanttocaptureforherthebellylaughofababywhoistouchingthesoftfurofadogforthefirsttime.iwanthertotastethejoythatissorealithurts.
myfriend'slookmakesmerealizethattearshaveformedinmyeyes."you'llneverregretit,"isayfinally.then,squeezingmyfriend'shand,iofferaprayerforherandmeandallofthemeremortalwomenwhostumbletheirwayintothisholiestofcallings.