IhavehadmanydifficultiessinceIstartedtolearnEnglish.SinceIcomefromthesouthofChina,Icannotdistinguishnasalsoundsfromnon-nasals:theysoundexactlythesameinmydialect.Thus,Ihadahardtimetelling“night”from“light”attheverybeginning.MypoormemoryalsoaddedtothedifficultieswhenIdecidedtoenlargemyvocabulary.EnglishwordsweresoelusivethatIcouldonlyrememberthemforawhile.
Ihavesparednoeffortstoovercomethedifficultiesandfinallysucceeded.Inordertotelltheslightdifferencebetweennasalsoundsandnon-nasals,Iforcedmyselftospeakmandarineveryday.WheneverIstartedtospeakEnglish,Iremindedmyselfthedifferencebetween“night”and“light”.AtfirstIfeltitratherunnatural,butasIwentonIwasgraduallyaccustomedtospeakinginthisway.Asformywretchedmemory,Igaveupmechanicalmemorizationandtriedmanyothernewways.AtlastIfoundamostefficientwayforme:memorizingEnglishwordsbytheirstemsandaffixes.ThisishowIhaveovercomesomedifficultiesinlearningEnglish.
Wecan'thavegoodluckforever,solearninghowtofacedifficulitiesisimportant.
Somepeoplefeelupsetwhentheymeetdifficulities,andtheydon'twanttotrytolettheirdreamscometureanymore.
Theyjustwanttofindaplaceandstayatthereforalongtime.
Sotheywon'thaveagreatsuccessintheend.
Butothersaredifferent,somepeopledon'tthinkdifficulitiesaretroubles,theybelieve"Difficulitiesisthemotherofthesuccess''and"BelieveinmyselfandIwillwin'',theyareconfidentand
brave,andtheychoosetofacethedifficulitieswithasmile.
Theytrytheirbesttosolvetheirproblemsandiftheydon'tfeelwell,they'lltalktotheirfriendsorfamilymembers,sothattheycanbehappierandmoreconfident.Andtheydon'tmindwhatotherssayaboutthem,theycanalwaysfindagoodwayforthemselvestorelax.
Ithinkifyoucanhaveagoodpsychologywhenyoumeetdifficulitiesinyourlife,andbemoreconfidentandbrave,trytofindagoodwaytorelax,maybetalktoothersorhavearest,andthenthinkitover,makeaplantosolveyourproblems.Ifyoudoso,you'llfindthatyourdifficulitiesarenotasdifficultasyouthinkbefore!